You who are alive can only visit with those who have passed. You who grieve, know that those you love have the choice to stay or to move on. I can take you to the Summerlands, but until you see My face in your last moments, you cannot stay there.
This is true of those of you in the waking world: you have the choice of staying in the grief or you can choose to move on.
But it is your choice, in your own time.
Just remember that grief can be seductive. It can lure you into staying in your anger, or hatred, or fear, or sadness and keep away others who want to be with you.
Try to keep these others in your life. They will, in time, remind you of the colors and joys of life.
As will I.